For all the lovebirds about to enter the beautiful chapter of marriage, this episode is the eye-opener you need as it unpacks the realities of what you are signing up for when you do so the customary way. Gentlemen, this episode demystifies announcing your intentions to her family, choosing your delegation of “uncles”, what bride price you should expect to pay, and all the intricacies of the stages of the lobola process.
EPISODE 2: Nakushoniwe Ekhaya Part 1(When There Is A Bereavement At Home – Part 1)
For those of you facing the daunting task of planning a farewell for a loved one, this episode and the next, offer essential guidance. Navigate the initial shock with cultural awareness, and understanding the necessary preparations. We’ll walk you through the customs, outlining what to avoid and explaining the reasoning behind traditional practices. This series provides a respectful and informative approach to honouring your loved one during a difficult time.
EPISODE 3: Nakushoniwe Ekhaya Part 2(When There Is A Bereavement At Home – Part 2)
As advised at the end of the previous episode, due to the depth of knowledge shared by our elders, and the sheer volume of invaluable insights, this topic flows over two consecutive episodes which allows for a more comprehensive exploration of the cultural nuances involved, ensuring no crucial detail is overlooked. We go so far as the cleansing ceremony after the funeral to the post-burial grieving traditions of the widow, widower and the household.
EPISODE 4: Tinkolelo Takadzeni(Age-old Beliefs)
For those who grew up navigating the unspoken rules of townships and rural life, this episode offers clarity. We delve into the cautionary tales and “set laws” we were raised with, moving beyond simple warnings to uncover the underlying reasons. Explore the blend of superstition and fact that shapes these beliefs, gaining a deeper understanding that often eludes us even in adulthood. This episode illuminates the origins and meanings behind those long-held traditions.
